Top 5 Toys for Group Sex – Love Swingers [#38 of 100 Days of Sex]

Top 5 Sex Toys for Group Sex
 
 
Love Swingers have been kind enough to ask me to write a post for their website, which is a new site for swingers looking to find other partners and couples across the country to engage in sex. Group sex (or orgy) is defined when more than 2 people have sex together, which in theory may sound delightful and is on the list for many couples to try at some point but occasionally one or more of the members may feel left out or unsure of what to be doing some of the time. So here I have complied a list of sex toys that will help the orgy flow better and make sure everyone is getting the best pleasure and stimulation at all times! 
 
1. Choosing a fun and sexy game to help break to ice at events like these and gets every one into a sexy mood. Something like this simple card game where you have to kiss certain people or strip tease makes it all light hearted whilst also getting the gents hard and the ladies wet. This game ‘Let’s fool around‘ from Lovehoney RRP £6.99 has two sets of cards depending how saucy you want the game to be! Lovehoney has plenty of fun games to try so please find one that is right for you and your group! 

 
2. Not a sex toy as such but fluidproof sheets will help with the clean up after a heated group sex session but also adds a sleekness with the designs of these amazing sheets. They feel amazing against your skin unlike PVC sheets which needs a lube or oil to move around easier on, they glide around softly whilst also protecting your mattress/floor/sofa from any spillages, stains or fluids. They are a great investment if you are into sex which can get messy – even if you aren’t, these sheets are very practical for the more ‘vanilla’ sex, as it’ll stop your bedsheets from getting sweaty! Head over to Sheets of San Francisco to shop for yours. Available in sheets, duvet covers and pillow cases. 
 
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3. More often than not, during an orgy or group sex there will be some sort of girl-on-girl action, to which a strap on may come in handy for them. Also men are becoming more open to exploring their own bodies and may like to engage in an act called ‘pegging’ where (normally a women) would use a strap on to -put it bluntly- fuck him in the arse. So for me, a strap-on is a definite sex toy to have on hand for one or more participants to use throughout the session. With so many strap on types you can buy there really is one for everyone. Below we have the ‘standard’ strap on that you can attach different dildos onto (like thisfor only £18.50 RRP)but you can also get ones with an extra dildo to go inside the wearer so you are both getting pleasure, or strap on’s for males, for him to put below his penis to engage in double penetration for the women. So do have a look around to find one that suits you and the group of people you are engaging with.

 
 
4. Using a cock ring helps everyone all round really. Using a ring will help the blood to stay where you want it too, as it slightly squeezes you causing the penis to stay harder for longer. As with group sex, if you are slightly nervous that may affect your performance, so having something like this can help with that. Again, there are several different types you can purchase including a plain cock ring, with no vibrations like this –a pack of 3 so you can adjust how tight you like it costing just £4.99. The more popular rings have something for the ladies as well,  like thisone which has a vibrating section at the top so it can be grinded against, best used when the girl is on top in my opinion. Of course you can go the whole hog and get a cock and ball ring with vibrating attachment like in the picture below. The bigger ring would go around the balls with the smaller around the penis. The knobbly part of the top would then vibrate for the female participating! Smiles all round!

5. Body wands are arguably the most used vibrator in the industry, you will quite often see a body wand of some description being used on a women during group sex or in a bondage scene. As it is a mains powered vibrator and doesn’t need to rely on batteries, the strength it can give is amazing. There are many different varieties of this type of vibrator and some give slightly different vibrationsstrengths, or portability. Each has pros and cons but I prefer the original design like the one pictured by Doxy Massager The only con really is that it has a lead to the plug, so extension cables are a must and you may get tangled up the first few times of usage but after gaining experience with the wand, it will be magical. It has a soft flexible head to use in all positions, just make sure to add a little lube if needed for her. Now, this is also a great massager in general and can be a great tool for foreplay to give sensual massages to the group!

For the males especially to be able to give this amount of pleasure and stimulation to their females during group sex will be a great experience for the whole group. You will be able to watch them squirm under the vibrations of the body wand for as long or little as you wish!

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Most importantly, use condoms and contraception, especially if you do not know the members of the group well. You may think it will ‘spoil the mood’ or ‘not feel as sexy’ but neither will herpes or chlamydia. Stay safe because in the long run it’ll be better for you, using condoms like this from Pasante will still give you that great feel as they are extra thin but still safe. 

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Do you agree with my list? Write in the comments section what sex toys you would use during group sex!

Love, 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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